"He who loves you forbids you from committing sin." ~Ali bin Abu Thalib
We are sometimes blinded by the idea of false love. If someone consciously has iman in his/her heart and understands that there is a punishment here in the world or hereafter, how could he/she ask you to do some sins for the sake of love? Does what he/she mean by loving is pushing you to the hell and punishment? If so, that is a filthy definition of love. For me, it does not sound like love. It sounds more like a deception.